Love and relationships for you

4 Relationships in general idea and attraction

This was 4 love relations by area relation and this is like there are 5 ways of love, yet not if they don't need the feel. They generally get along yet focus is energy to get things fixated. So this quote works; "Where love rules, there is no will to power think to will; and where power is predominate, there is no actual points until you think about things. See this is the nicest way of saying things so the way one's physiology energy is power by sight there love is lacking or allowing. See the area you think is relationing or use is feel to see or feel by use. So think, power is relating by feel. That is a way to relate. See to the area feel is use by focus. The one is the shadow of the other. However, you don't have to do things you don't want to do, love is just a word and feeling is the feeling you have to work with or live life as you feel this is allowed. So, as you are as it is a relationship with one another."

  The reason this document was written, is to bring to light the fact that it's possible to keep a relationship for 5 years without breakup, and still keep going by using the info outlined in this document. This info came from talking to as many people who were useful or not as possible of both sexes, plus consulting the sources listed at the bottom. One such source; a married couple who chose to remain anonymous. There was also a college course on speaking to others to learn the basic rules of communication of one to another. One such lesson was to use the I instead of you in speech to one another. For personal communication it is important to accept what you perceive as you like to do things, as if to go on or this is based off trying to fix things as they stand orr work or you work as you wish as though if giving what they wish. As a purpose is to learn more or leave things alone in go or see moments, think and do to focus as things you work with are to  to learn from and to know any more read on in this doc. This article is from ancient english.

  Keep in mind to keep calm, as that is a thought everything is relative. This is life, life is to live with the things you see and do or work as you think, feel and focus or else you are what you think and people can be different. Love is just a word people choose to use and to represent the feelings they have, and it's just with a relationship between two or more people. Love is a generosity to use things in a pairing and as if a thought; you energize yourself as if your use is a point and things you want is in an idea. Expressed or otherwise, is a mention that creates a point of activity. Involved is energy at a point, that if in the moment your spouse catches you offguard your use is gone of any sexual urge. That's good for the moment so enjoy what you get.

  How to get a relationship in the first place? Hang around gathering places to make contact with people and once in a while, though the right feeling comes on you or there is a bump into them accidentally, it's a moment. However you meet, it's usually up to you or them. See it is sometimes through politeness and spoken conversation that reveals what is going on in their mind. Anyway you do it, and that is, any way you do it the goal is the same. For example, trying to meet people for a family life situation and the loss of loneliness. Now to do this you must understand that people have to be ready to need a relationship and be willing to speak to each other. Thus, the relation is based on these tenets:

  Letter writing: This is a letter I saw written by feel to work things out without reason for recompense. "I feel I need some rest and relaxation, so I think I will take it as I can get it. That is all the ideal action points that there is for me. I seek to know things so I will ask someone around here what they do. If I think about it I am able to work with those that want to make work with me. So I will work things out. That is all for now." This is a letter written by feel and expresses the desire of the person without need to go express things that could get them in trouble. This serves as an example to what is felt then known about, so the person could work thinking out or accept what they feel safely or in safety.

  Seen as this, this is Jays law; thinking is thought where you create by feel and use this point as this is symbolism. That allows this to go hand-in-hand with Amy's law; use is friendly usage. I think this is thought to work then, where your able to think of what you see so that is useful to get what you want. Yet think to be focusing by feel. Seeing the area I think the area point you see is the area is use to recognize what is there. Say your point as it does not matter, they will listen if they want to hear your voice. This is the area you see to think by idea. Think to use what you have and work with what you have, that is the end point by feel."

  Some other tenets:

  Now you can follow these rules but you don't have to follow them all, and if you can then you be set to go. After you find someone, there be two steps to go by to gain the relationship.

  1. Be humorous or whatever mood need be to support the other as you can be an aid for the other plus be ready for anything.
  2. Know that a relationship needs time to develop so learn from each other but if too much don't worry if it fails as you can get back together. As acceptance comes with the realization, that you need the other person. Think to work with the life you have. You only have so much energy, so use it wisely.
  3. Support yourself or others so you survive, so if you know the point to do then make use of a calming idea for you can think the best thing to do. Be a support or allow them to support yourself. Then you can try without fail sometimes to do things for yourself.

  The sexual relationship be to first negotiate then to talk and after the sexual arousal appears right in the talking. They sometimes skip to the partnership stage to have sex and low romance thus it lasts all night. This date stage lasts for months then the relationship either breaks up or goes into partnership. Only after a successful sex pairing does the relationship go to marriage most of the time. The whole goal of this is marriage for lust and desire. So this marriage lasts a few years to forever as long as the sex interests are there.

  The stages of a normal relationship be: negotiation, talking, osmosis, friendship, dating, partnership, spouse, marriage, children and parentage. How this works is the fact of you talking to your choice, thus you negotiate with them right after for a chat dialogue. In this negotiation try to find in yourself similarities to the other, thus you find a common base of communication through talking. Osmosis occurs by the union of thought of the other to form a friendship base. This base be adaptable to the influences that surround, so it sometimes turns into the negotiation stage. After a while, you may end up dating.

  Thus to date you heighten your senses and make spontaneous fun happen or constant chatter of interesting subjects, so you keep their interest but if you hear the word "no" or "stop", in the conversation then you shift to another topic, or stop. This oftentimes leads to sex after romance. Romance be the important part of a date which can be sometimes overridden by the sexual desire and need for one another.

  In the dating itself, be open minded so you can understand and keep the partner you chose. After a few successful dates you enter a partnership of relation. This is where you live together or meet each other constantly in secret, or openly for sex or other activities. With the advent of a partnership you find that after a few months to a few years the partners can opt for marriage after trust between them be firm.

  Some keep to partnering, as  to be married you enter the spouse stage and thus find a true understanding of each other. This can be true for partnerships, as well. Thus a trust of partnership bonding is formed and you set a date for the actual marriage, or remain partners. Either way, for partnerships and marriage, there comes to be a stage where you move into a place, with each other as company. Do this if you know each other.

  Marriage be desire of duty that people stay couples for the act of children. This is the somewhat permanent joining of mind, body and duty for the purpose to start a family and make devotion to each other. Where, you can just be partners, which be the choice, of staying together, and if you don't actually want to marry, as partnership can be as a marriage.

  A couple starts off with two people working together and somewhat living together as they decide. The coupling of sex begets children sometimes and the more children the higher the living costs of family life and more stress in environment. Being adaptable and doing meditation, makes the possible arguments and stress disappear. The higher the living costs the lower the standards of life in the family.

  In the parental stage it is necessary to make the understanding of others habits and then dismiss them as normal. If you don't dismiss the spousal habits then the marriage problems persists as lack of communication plus irritation of habits cause breakup. Try to not let little things get to you and with each little thing that pops up, talk to your spouse and laugh off the problem to resolve the issue and alleve excess stress. Meditation begets a large reduction of stress but not the solution to the habit. When love finally turns to devotion, it can turn to the child and then sex desire disappears. Thus the parents must take care of the children and be willing to adapt or it falls apart. So try to strive with the spousal actions and release tension through meditations. Don't be afraid of counselling, marriage counselling helps, even if you don't think it will.

  Children stage starts with pregnancy and pregnancy lasts 9 months or less as children can be premature. During the pregnancy a roundness can form in the stomach to make an a smooth ball. The female spouse is subjected ' to rapid mood swings due to pressure and undue stress, or they never actually change. Thus, yelling fits can be defeated by a calm expression and trying talk smoothly to the spouse. The jealousy fits are defeated by reassurance and repeating that I didn't cheat or other similar phrases till she comes around. To end an arguement tell the spouse exactly what your doing all the while leaving no room for arguement.

  To detain the argument possibility, again meditate to release the stress. If you can't do it, then use void meditation. This is where you think of nothing for 5 to 10 minutes. Dismiss any thought as you do this meditation. those are thoughts that come to you with a thought to your mind where you can think the thought of 'it's not important, dismiss the thoughts.' If an argument persists, guide it with choice words so that it can be a positive resolve and repentance. When nothing good can be said, then say nothing at all and walk away. The argument of failure can be with no growth and more pressure to the relation. This typical activity goes on until the female hormones stabilize and the pregnancy term is over, along with the birth of a child.

  Men during the pregnancy months act sometimes as if nothing happened, and as if they should support the mother more often. Let the male spouse support you when they want to support you. So men, try not to eat like the pregnant woman as you could gain a lot of mass, even if you feel sympathetic. To get the men back to your side say calming words and invite them into your activities. Work with the men trying to be understanding and compassionate, as this might shock the male spouse very much so, unless they expect it. If they are calm and cool to you after, then say things like "I think this is the best for both of us, so lets remain together" or "I think this is the best for us, lets do this." Describe what you want to do. Do this several times and he will come around.

  To get over the "I am afraid of this thus I run away" mindset, try not mentioning what they might be afraid of while giving them other positive messages or means to their moods. Like to offer what they want to do as an activity. Give the male spouse activities to keep his mindset sane when you get moody. Make every chance you get of the baby noticed by saying "it kicked" or "its doing things" then try to describe the activity. This will keep him occupied from the strain of pregnancy. All in all, meditation will keep you calm and offer an appearance of emotional control.

  Parental stage

This stage is central because this is the most strenuous and difficult time, as spouse and children must be treated differently and separately in two different relationships. The spouse you treat with dignity and spontaneity, whereas the children you treat as if you were the rolemodel and only show what you want. Thus, the treatment of children be shown equal attention; show attention to all the children you have. One child becomes responsible for the rest as a leader; it usually becomes the task of the 1st born to accomplish. The younger children are shown the responsibility by the oldest making less strain on the parents. Now the parents can be free to do more things but family meetings be necessary to tell the children you care. These meetings are necessary to plan out. Plan family activity with some discipline and give the children goals. It can be necessary for the parents to talk to their children about set goals separate of each other yet they can be complementary. Thus, they can be playful and this makes it fun as a whole. What's an example of this? two movies/programs come to mind; "family ties" or "the brady bunch" for large and small families.

Disease and marriage trouble

  There is this idea about marriage struggles, when it comes to disease and sickness and being patient in those times. One can be patient enough to withstand the test of time, think and test to treat the other as though a spouse with respect and love. This is to prove that test is true, and trivial by the time you think about the moment. Some idea you might look at is this page on self-diagnosis and recovery by herbs. Other web pages are resisting pain and working with herbs. Other cures and treatments are listed here in the healing effects, an article I wrote a long time ago and includes eating right or losing weight and this is if you need to lose weight or gain muscle.

  So I think that there is a point you need to wait and help the significant other out, and there is a time you need for yourself. Amid that is the balance between relationships, and what makes a working relation by feel. Allow yourself time to do things by yourself and you feel your allowed your personal space, this creates no trouble with others as your less likely to snap at those who talk to you. This is so your over the problem if possible time is allowed, and this is with enough space and boundaries that are there and the person or you can feel respected.

  So if the person is over the problem, then there is no problem and it only was a situation that sometimes is easily handled. This works with hot heated people, and especially done is counting to five or ten to cool off. This is with the right words to guide the situation, or distract with the idea away from it being you. However mentioned is faith healers, thinking of a few to use their names but you only need to ask and I might give the name out. This is all I can promise. Some are better than others.

  So some say that love is forgiving, everyone makes mistakes and the heart of love is being able to forgive the bad moments. Some could create more out of things then necessary though, so of course use cool idea and don't argue as this is within reason. Especially if its not life threatening to one or the other, in that case things work out better in the end. Sorta like a ciou moment or a happy ending, that means it's like a prayer that never ends until you need it to end by feel.

  This however remains true; love is not boastful, there's no I did this or you didn't do this, there's equality. So don't be afraid to talk things out and then things are clarified. That's the answer I find if given enough time does work, yet if not enough communication happens then communication breaks down. This is if there is a relationship, and if you think you can cope. So coping is working with another till satisfied, and that's all there is to this. Getting to know why things occurred is important, so think and you shall know. Feel free to use pointers from the Men are from mars and women are from venus book. Enjoy what you can of it.

Prelogue to the book: Men are from mars and some women are from Venus

  "Men Are From Mars " And "Women Are From Venus" Or Are They ??

  In these times of spiritual enlightenment, equality and greater independence, the traditional viewpoint of roles in relationships between men and women have radically changed.

  Roles of both men and women in society and in relationships were previously clearly defined. But this was based on a patriarchal society values dominated by men.

  As we move into a new matriarchal golden age, women are becoming much more emancipated, independent, free thinkers and powerful.

  While men are losing their grip on power, having to adjust and redefine themselves to the new age,of equality of the sexes. The redefining of roles has also brought about confusion for both men and women, as the traditional rules have changed.

  Men are having to adjust to be more empathetic to women's needs, as they express them more freely. So even though men are sometimes more practical minded and women sometimes tend to be more goal oriented, they can understand each other more often than not.

  There is a point where most men and women think before they preach and try to prepare before the moment, this is a point to prepare for by feel or thought so they can find answers to questions that they cannot answer normally. That is the way things are sometimes. So think and you know by what you do and so forth.

  They also need to be more involved in family life, caring and raising children,housekeeping etc, as women are more often becoming equal breadwinners. Partly due to the average single salary no longer matches the needs of the family and women are, quite rightly,now geared to being far more career minded and independent breadwinners from the outset of their adult life.

  Women, on the other hand, are also having to manage dual roles of running the family, having careers and increased independent social lives. Which has meant for them having to change their roles to compete equally with men socially, career wise in the business world as well take charge of the family, particularly if a single parent.

  These changes in roles have completely redefined the dynamics of male / female relationships. Traditionally men and women think and act differently. i.e although some may say this is a generalization.

Brain Hemispheres

  Many men are sharply left-brain dominant, while women tend to be more evenly balanced between left and right-brain processing. Women are, therefore, thought to be generally more intuitive, and sometimes better communicators. Men are often less socially adept, and are more project-oriented thinkers than females.

  Men generally think in boxes. They have many boxes. Each has its own logical place and wired connections So a special woman in his mind has its own box, which he will open when and where it suits or stimulated. Men also have that secret box. - The "Nothing Box". It's man's favorite box. Why? Because he doesn't have to do anything in this box. It's his own comfort box. The "Nothing Box" can be incomprehensible to a woman, because she doesn't really have one, and perceives it's existence as a way for men to shut down and avoid her.

  Woman asks the question:. What do you do in this "Nothing Box"? Man answers in irritation and dismay: "Nothing of course! " That's why it's called a "Nothing Box" !!!!"

  So within the "Relationship Box" he has, he will make it as big or small, complex or simple, as he is able to cope with. If the woman he desires fits into the "Relationship Box" and its comforting, he will want to fill it up with more and give more.

  Women brains are far more complex! There is a mass of wiring all connected together, all working at high speed, switching on and off, maybe ten or more, at any one single moment, multi-tasking..The wiring is either ordered or haywire, depending on her emotional and physical state. So with a "Relationship" there are many emotions, feeling and thoughts going on at one time, as well as dealing with every other aspect of her life. Men cannot comprehend this, as any attempt to do so would cause instant implosion. This irritates most men as they cannot understand why women need to think, feel so much.

  Man asks question: "Whats the point of driving yourself and me crazy??" Woman answers: "You just don't understand do you?" Man answers: "Nope... There you go again!! " and thinks lets go back to my "Nothing Box", where it's safe.


  Women are purported to have better communication skills and emotional intelligence than men. Women tend to be group-oriented, and apt to seek solutions by talking through issues. Men can have trouble picking up on emotional cues unless they're clearly verbalized - making for tricky communications between the sexes.

  Woman generally like men who look and seem strong, yet caring, gentlemanly, a good smile and pretty teeth. Woman get aroused by a man's smell, be it his cologne perfume or simply his designer suits. They like sharp razor men, especially very clean good shoes! All women's eyes always roll down to a man's shoes upon meeting a man.They are very observant and catch all details on a man's face, while women wear their masks better and firmer.

  Women don't like pushy men, that means making a woman do or feel uncomfortable to do, see or act. Basically caring is very important for a woman.

  Men get an inferior complex with strong attractive women. Men will show strong confidence and have a mask on always, but once they see or meet a strong woman, the man often cant handle it. A strong woman means : She Feels good. Sees good, Hears good, Smells good! Tastes good! That scares most men. They have to overcome that fear to play in the fire.!

  Basically its the five senses woman have in her. Don't mess with her! She is fire! Come too close one burns! Now to spot a strong woman is not easy either. Women are very good actors on stage!

  Men universally crave women who stay light-hearted and relaxed. Especially when things get rough. Unfortunately this is very rare for a man to find, and it's equally difficult for women to learn how to do this if they have a history of getting overly-emotional. If you lead with a sense of humor when things are not going well, it can instantly turn your love life around and spark emotional attraction again.

  Men universally desire youthfulness in a woman. Youthfulness is an attitude. It consists of things like innocence and childlike energy, and this is something that stimulates men on a subconscious level.

  Men like to see a woman being able to express positive emotions. body language that subconsciously tells all men that you're irresistible and you know it.

  Most women don't understand that becoming emotional freaks most men out and causes them to close down out of fear. Most women try to “control” their emotions, but their emotions always come out sooner or later, whether directly through crying or anger, or indirectly through aloofness or other games.

  Men are purpose and goal-oriented. They value the vision they want to create in life above all else. So when a man meets a woman, he secretly hopes that she will relax with his path, whatever that may be.

  Physical beauty is the outward expression of the energy of femininity, which men are attracted to; This is why beauty is so powerful to men.

  A smile tells a man on a gut level that you're receptive and no smile says you're “untouchable”.

  A woman who is present, that he can look into her eyes and see that she is with him right here and now and not thinking about a million thoughts is highly attractive.

  Men are drawn to women who live a life of love, positivity, joy, creativity and keeps worry or fear to a minimum. Unfortunately many women live in constant fear, worry, self-judgment, guilt and anxiety, due to negative experiences in life. A woman who is light-hearted, filled with love in her heart, is one of the most desirable qualities a woman can possess with men.

Game Play

  A strong woman loves to play games. So if she rejects a man, but still wants him, he has to figure out the game play. Not easy as she makes up all the rules. A bit like Russian Roulette. Damned if you do. Damned if you don't . Hit the right button out of many and BINGO !

  Men have fewer initiation buttons and most work. So there's a bigger chance of hitting the jackpot!

  If a woman suspects that her significant other may be playing one on her, all is not lost. Mind games are played for many reasons. If she understands how and why he is pushing her, she will be able to play the player at his own game and come out ahead.

  The first reason why a man might play them is just to test his woman-her love, loyalty, emotional capability, understanding, and intelligence.

  A man may also play them when he really wants to obtain something from his significant other and knows that the only way he can make her consider doing it is by messing with her emotions. a real player.

  These real players or masters of the game have recognized how vulnerable emotions can make people, and they are using this shortcoming to their advantage.Yet other men play games simply because another man may also be playing games or he knows it can be fun. Such a man may purposely stir the waters just to watch a woman react or become off balance.


  When faced with stressful situations, men usually employ 'fight or flight' tactics, while women use a 'tend or befriend' response that is rooted in their natural instincts for caring for their children and establishing strong group bonds.

  Men need their alone time. Men reduce stress by forgetting about their problems. It's sort of a mini-vacation. We all know how taking a vacation helps us forget our everyday problems. Interestingly, women reduce their stress by talking about their problems. So women need to understand that men need to reduce stress in a different way.


  Most women and men aren't clear about what they need and don't know that their primary needs are different; this lack of communication and awareness can cause emotional resentment.

  Since women tend to have a larger deep limbic system than men, they're more in touch with their feelings and are better at expressing their emotions. This makes women better at connecting with others, but unfortunately also more prone to different types of depression.

  Men are generally more guarded with their emotions. Deep inside a man is a need that what he does has a positive impact on a woman. A man needs to feel that what he does has meaning and purpose.

  So how can a woman help a man in her life in this area? A woman needs to show and express confidence and appreciation for the little and big things a man does. She should tell him that she appreciates how hard he works, that she appreciates his assistance in the home. Criticism simply drains a man of feeling trusted. Appreciation fulfills a man's sense for meaning and purpose. When a man knows his efforts are appreciated, he's naturally encouraged to do more.

  Men's independence and isolation sometimes leads to women feeling emotionally abandoned. A woman's primary emotional needs are caring, understanding and respect. A woman needs to educate her man on what her primary emotional needs are in a positive way so she feels cared for and like a priority. It's the time together that's most important to a woman.

  Women often feel that they're giving and giving and giving, and aren't getting enough back. They ask, "So why should I meet his needs?" Men often feel, "I'm doing so much for her and all she does is complain." Men can then give up, believing that nothing makes her happy.

  It can be truly difficult to understand and accept our partner's different set of emotional needs. Men and women need education on these differences to help their relationships.


  When referring to sexual attraction, everything starts from the mind!

  Men have as much as 20 times more testosterone in their systems than do women. This makes men typically more aggressive, dominant and more narrowly focused on the physical aspects of sex.

  Traditionally, with men testosterone drives the "Man Trance"-- that glazed-eye look a man gets when he sees breasts for example. Women may wish that they say that men can stop themselves from entering this trance. But the truth is, they can't. Their visual brain circuits are always on the lookout for fertile mates. Whether or not they intend to pursue a visual enticement, they have to check out the goods.

  So to a man, this is the most natural response in the world, so he's dismayed by how betrayed his wife or girlfriend feels when she sees him eyeing another woman. Men look at attractive women the way women look at pretty butterflies. They catch the male brain's attention for a second, but then they flit out of his mind. Five minutes later, while the wife or girlfriend are still fuming, he's deciding whether he wants ribs or chicken for dinner. He asks them, "What's wrong?" and the woman says, "Nothing." He shrugs and turns on the TV. The woman smolders and fears that he'll leave her for another woman.

  He also considers he must act masculine and be more dominant in his approach towards women.

  Seeing this in men, the dominant perceptual sense is vision, which is typically not the case with women. All of a woman's senses are, in some respects, more finely tuned than those of a man.

  Women are not, in the main, turned on by pictures of nudes . . . Women may be aroused by pictures of couples coupling. Because what they are seeing, in however sterile a sexual context, is a relationship in action. Women are not excited by a picture of male genitalia by itself . . . Men like female genital close-ups in porn magazines because it is a thing to which they can imagine doing things to. Sex for men is vastly impersonal. Pornography is simply meat for men. Do they ever wonder who the nude is? Not for a moment. They wonder what they would do to her.

  Men want sex, and women want relationships. Men want flesh and women want love. Just as boys wanted balloons, toys, and carburetors, the girls have always wanted contact, communion and company.

  The female mind is organized to place priority on relationships, the male on achievement. Men keep a tally of their sexual conquests. The female brain is not organized to keep sex in a separate compartment. This is a male model. As if his brain has a specific filing cabinet for sex, completely unrelated to emotion.

  Women, too, are excited by visual erotica, although women are not as turned on by it as men are. Women are much more aroused than men by romantic words, images, and themes in films and stories. Women's sexual fantasies include more affection and commitment.

  Women often dwell on their own emotional reactions. And they are more than twice as likely to think about a sex partner's emotional characteristics. . . . Flowers, oils, candlelight, satin sheets, fluffy towels: When women fantasize about sex, they conjure up the textures, sounds, and smells, all of the ambiance surrounding sex, more regularly than men. Women also like more kissing, hugging, stroking, and cuddling during sex. In short, women place the act of intercourse within a wider physical context.

Sexual Orientation

  Thought in these enlightened times, sexual orientation is no longer clearly defined. The rightful liberation of gay, lesbian, transsexuals etc. within society, has also brought new dynamics to relationships and interaction within couples, families, work and social life. But is has also brought confusion into the soup of traditional roles between men and women. Some people don't really know who they are anymore.

In Summary

  The issue in these changing times of enlightenment, from patriarchal to matriarchal society values, is that there is a greater expectation for men to act and think or at least be more considerate of women's ideals.

  So, as women are becoming more independent, liberated and career minded are having to adopt more traditionally masculine ways of thinking and acting.

  Both women and men need to understand, relate to and interact differently when they think and act in terms of relationships. Sometimes this is where strong willed people do things for themselves and others allow those that want to do things to attempt things. So it is not simply a case of saying or acting like "You don't understand me" and then a parting of ways. It's a case of "We might not understand each other, but we are willing to try use all our senses, understand the "boxes", the "complex wiring", the "nothingness", "the fullness" etc etc, for a united path of love and respect for our differences and similarities."

  Communication stops between husband / wife, boyfriend / girlfriend, because there is no LOVE only assumptions, judgement and selfishness.

  Hence, one might say, where as "Men are from Mars " and "Women are from Venus" and neither do the twain meet . Now "Men are from Mars trying to be Venus" and "Women are from Venus trying to be Mars" and everyone is even more confused.

  At some point when levels of human consciousness polarity raises to a higher level of spiritual enlightenment and oneness,. "Mars" will converge with "Venus" a Ying Yang Convergence.

Love is the core to heart !

  Love that stays strong flows, all emotions flow together, e.g : faith, love, kindness, humbleness.

  With love you are full! Like after a delicious meal! Love is what keeps people together by feeling love in heart ! Love is not just saying "I love you" to your partner !

  Simply - Love is - Feel it, Taste it, See it, Share it !!!!

  "We all come alone and go alone

  Karma makes you meet / greet / actions !

  So do good, see good, be good.

  Love ever. Hurt never. Love all. Serve all"

 Words of Sathya Sai Baba in Puttarpathi

Michael J Robey
Psychic Medium | Psychic Investigator


  This is a different idea of relationships, from the book "Men are from mars and women are from venus", and isn't to make you look better than you actually are, it's to make you look better as the info is apart of you, that you share. These ideas are governed by this rule list. Be a giving machine, to not be more worried over losing the person than going or gaining them; to not worry over looking silly/foolish. To have an act of putting patience and a commitment with support first.

  Idea support is to be able to ask for support, where as women do not expect us to ask, or to get and there they have to be asked in order to get support to them. The male can give support if only asked, when a woman only gives support when they feel like it and without asking. Like they give love, instinctively, and is seen to be without asking. In order for males to ask for support they have to get over their an embarrassment with their ego which may get in the way. They must realize they aren't always the breadwinners. So why can't they do it? They realize that they're the male and that they actually have some of the breadwinner idea, and have the ego that is there in their head and maintain themselves as the breadwinner. They aren't, as some women earn the bread just as well.

  As in effect, when women want support they may ask for support in a different way, but when it comes down to it, when a woman will ask for support they sometimes don't come out with it or they do and you know it, this is when you immediately can tell their mood as they wanna be listened to, and not actually given advice as in the actual solution idea. This means to which they might be given a solution, as males tend to reduce womens problems. Just to help get over their ego, and to get over their ego is to ever react and be in the best idea to do things for themselves so that they can ask later. However as you might think, it is to get over the ego that they feel like they need help and they feel like it's urgent and it's on their watch to do.

  It's possible to do it, so they get over the fear and do it anyway. They fantasize, the male needs to do this to feel with their ego and some females need to feel the idea, pretty, appreciated, etc. Appreciation goes a long way as to a further rule, a verbal appreciation creates a word of enhancement of validation. All of this and all of us need to feel important, being important is helpful for wants that are sometimes due from other things or else, as it might seem, this is the case to get something going.

  Sometimes a male doesn't instinctively do things to support others by feeling that the act belongs from being there. Sometimes there's resentment, when the female has to ask and sometimes therein exists what is also a type of resentment too. And so be, being that their feelings are resentment as each resentment for resentment by the male. The male may not actually want to help, so it could go on to reduce points of what the female does. As to ever do something, go to do, and correct. Things that ever go are correct or corrected by being correctable. This is an act that ever goes on as it's to the feelings an ego, and is correctable.

  These rules and ideal are as if to let it be as though you were a natural. As you might see it, it's like a moment to see things. The difference between male and female. "This is like a matter from the heart, it has to do with men are from mars and women are from venus. The men being martians and the women being venusians. you might notice some more changes or react to them as you interest yourself with them. With love as it's like a respect of moment. Given to strength, given to be action, Albeit it's autonomy and independence that men seek."

  Yes indeed, as you are putting yourself up to the first cycle of male intimacy, or female intimacy to buff up your personality and be more none responsive. it's this, male intimacy and ability that is like a rubber band in action. They stretch so far by use and seeking, but then they seek to be by themselves in their cave only to come out of their cave to seek more conversation. This second comeback is like a renewal of interest. As they lose interest but not totally and interest comes back, they have it but have it after, as peoples idea of some online action can be duplicate. To dupe is the complication, but a well is to the girls likeness. So it's like their concious representative idea by feeling. They are in a wave when they start an activity, peoples idea of online can be duplicated, but to create this duplication is hard. It's like a moment where you try to act like someone and fail because you want to be yourself. Just be yourself and act better or good for the moment.

  They go 'I'm so lost.' And they are with emotional upcomings from the past, then the wave crashes and they can get emotional if they seek an elucidation to their idea of self, and when the wave is up they seek to use life and gain emotional understanding when they crashes and they start to see what they are missing. This wave is like part of the well [being]. To seek understanding and by idea or enlightenment. When they draw up water it's to draw up their emotional idea. So this is their water.

  Thus, you have the wave and their well. It's slower to form and go ebb than the rubber band of men. It's true, but if you think of it; it's a little easy so we can make it hard. They seek emotional reserve and resolve to be so much so that they crash and hope to be understood. This means you can buy well water by offering to trade and that's what your getting from her, the well water, that you can use to form your own well if your a man. Yet know this, be responsible for your own actions and they might respect you sometimes for whom you are. This is 50/50 the main rule they can follow if they want to do things (sometimes).

  As she's crashed her wave and turned real bitchy, thus you can duplicate identity. Sometimes to express her emotion she sometimes requires to express her pain and to be understood of her pain. So her pain is like her homework. Now to express your understanding of it; the well and the cave, it's like male and female; respective of each other. So we are respective of their well and they of our cave.

  Men have their waves too, called timewaves or collision waves. They set up an effect that creates time, and this time is an event that sets off ripples. These ripples are other events caused by the main event making more events. Each event uses the chaos rule, where there are 9 events caused by each event; 3 somewhat wanted and known events, 3 unwanted events, and 3 unknown events. So this is known as the rule of three. So be it to set one event as an example, gets more events and effects full circle.

  This might help women to talk to you as I got a woman to talk to me and she worked with me better. She lightened up a bit. Talked about how things like a half day isn't actually a half day. Random other stuff. Aha! You see it works as if she understands she is to be understood as for her pain that she exposes and then it gets better. You can sometimes pick the subject. Direct by suggestions or pointed out idea, by feel I mean this is a point to do or not do.

  The new facts are what I learned based on practical knowledge off of it, the book idea; that men need 6 points of acceptance, and women need 6 points of affirmation and acceptance for emotional needs to feel loved is conducive. The point when they feel loved, is when they do things. This will help you learn them and use them as you will gnow them naturally. I will list the 6 points of it for men and women that you will come to gnow.

  They are for men; appreciation, acceptance, trust, to be admired, approval and need. If on a spirit journey as I was, then think or accept to skye feel to feel encouragement unless necessary. Provable is the point: we are only two people that are with one shift, or other use as a touch device, then think to move the body to somewhere as if you would move the cursor. Don't split, as you see the dead were the spirits that are your other selves, so you think you are one; think your with no personalities to cause the creator to unform them. This is the point you use or figure out the thought to use, or you can feel your ability is there as they are only from within. The rest are dead. Think to use what you have.

  The place we see or it's where we are in (energy) destroyed us or everyone is gone to some planet. So, this is thought to see and we got the spoils or area goods with free equipment, so as you think you see it's not always a free chance. Seeing to use a chance is a is with an ideal user area feel, have fun -take out is free as cooking is your own. Proven it's a reuben or see to be loved. For when thy key or otherwise left as though they were not wanted, yet the planet was the cause to make them leave. There are only one or two good rooms maintained, yet nothing else as this is a wasteland built off vibration to seem something else with people. I realize this is the planet of origins, to point the use yet ruins are everywhere. I noticed this as you think to see something and then walked away only to trip over nothing. Think to don't use the thought to think and/or to use instincts, see as you think you do or work the area by feel to don't think to create or see by thought and you will feel.

  This came from the mainlands off the malaise land or something not in the mainland of atlantis, use is sex by avalon that are a memory and is the subconscious that is cerebral. They seem a couple yet died out is energy perception. They are the spirits or use it's true, that the spirits surrender to us and is thought to create as we wish or think, but not to use to sometimes appear to atlantian. This is nothing except no is nothing, but a common manipulative ion or money study use to work with manipulated thought by indangerment or english feel that is endangerment. This came from mongolian (monipulative) magolian or mage being with peace by cromagnons. Say as you are a thought, the area is focus; the grounds are bloody by area feel.

  See this is thinking to become you as you transmorgify to create, some form that uses idea or think none eaten is seen results to use things. Seen is the two for they are gods, yet we don't exist as we are just dreams. We are just in the dreams as you think to send, tough was life we were live then dead as the mayans are sterile avalonions by feel see re unsterile. So we are just dead yet alive. A holder is the name no one will use if you think about this then use a name, come out of nowhere that some recognize you so can go anywhere out of curiousity or use is thought to create by feel this is both wrong or right.

  Seeing the usual point to focus idea. So the construction point is the point you focus, see as you think to the construction to change those you think to focus to change to created area the theiron changes. We can focus; you create yet the area is the eye drawn or creates that focuses are not what you think, you can create with they thta changes are the focus point. See as you are aware to the area use, think to user create te feel not do the effect as the weight slims down. Seeing to use or create not to create things so you create the point with displaced energy. Think the way to be or see to go or be by focus to see by feel. So you see no this isn't necessary.

  I think as the area by use is usable in a study to use usually is thought. I thought not made idea was possible by this so if you think not to destroy them as they are now, people or subconscious creates/devices by the subconscious using them. They are creative uses hacking by people, and you are yourself as you think you are formed from the felt feeling to use the area felt. This is to use or be created by the desire you seek. The right body feel activity is the correct point to your use. The area you see is to think or form from, yet nothing is there to react; think to use by thought that is not destructive thinking to be nice to work with by idea.

  Beat not or you figured out what we did with it, this is the dimension utmost or no attack with no disrespect that realizes them to the life you live, this is ungliest type or not that are fattest or unallowed food fat. By feel this is life for thought or not away, yet you live as you want to throw away. You are the creature there is no one alive, yet create as you want; the planet is exiset or exist life by not use as violent need ceases itself. Setting to not use thought to nothing that the creator can't cure. The god is ue with the alien tongue, the goddess is the planet for the sky as the god. See the planet exists things by the words use is feel or creation is thought by me or others. That is thought you see is use or thinking to create you manifest or focus by thought to create are use. Are you aware to the ses that your use creates? Answering is conscious or thy part is done, so you hear to use or focus to those is that focus by your respect to others dismissed are created activity to the user feel.

&nsbp; This starts with words, that ends in activity, so as you start by thought crave with something; this is because you are with words like chocolate is use by fellowship not for uses without cocaine. This creates multiple personality as you are stressed or not effected, you see the reason by pumpernickle if habaneo, use is hababero that create from thought touch to become you. See you are aware if you think to use them eah, by time you use a drug then illegally use the feel or use you away point you aren't allowed for whatever you do to be there. That is how they reach by described ways out to effect yet cease effect. For love by feel is created ded, seeing the area is sight for use. This is the area feel you the area is connected by love to create or void work considered human first are sahn, these were the first humans on the planet thought as varied destructive force by thought. Seeya though from thought to no sex or not by use if dead or spacial apes, this is focus, yet don't bother or you see their point as they are sometimes brutes.

  The effected are by the use of positivity or allowed rest. They are the abber'esmyth the race that uses the area, then uses condoned feel to create. Think to create as you think, then type or write then you get results. However you see they use the negative energy to word create. Next, they take the word out then mind rape by expenses, mind read by activity or mind reap to sound think to uou that you cease saying you know the creator. This is the sugar sugestion to disappeared, sugar suggestion that is raping by reaping to the area to the brutes or seen as brutes with observation or creation use to repair by sugery drink.

  We see they use you whom are the people with the goddess, this is the point with those who are on the moon, the god I realize is trust and is the use that is print with "use". Some apprent or apprentice is probably now saying, "are we that trusted" as you see thought is used seeing. Seeing as a point that is gas trapping to explode; this is for self-user feel where energy is theory or that the human is concept, the area is feel or so your not useless or your so you are able "pish" and create able mindedly or not sight "wastes" or otherwise you can focus to see teeth repair. Seeable as you cancel out what is bothering you, this is white light till no energy. So if you don't want situations, think "I see so you say".

  Thinking that you think to create or walk around to create by activity, so "uou pish is resist by resisting or resistor" the area with thought to help (unless in a pissy mood to piss on a toilet to cause a human ability to need to clean up). See as the water is use you are able after a long time turn into a bloated albino human or other human form. So you think to create or "arrange to anger or no area from feel with irritants by anger" or focus as this is no theory by management. True management is understanding that point people make and working with it. The turn is when something ends or something is gone to leave by feel.

  See or use is usually seen by feel, where you are are with wrecker, seen in a thought is the sun or the sun meaning wreckage (meaning wrecked thought by rottage). No by use is some prevention, yet by some idea to create better, or things can come from somewhere. See this is the one word that in a phrase is covered up our use, "this sunlight use is focus to light to create as you wish" and to think going to somplace. See then going diro by what it is, or directly not think to be near to directly think to use. Thus, if you follow a point in some anime; You are what this is by use, think for what you wish or "not" as you desire. You see, the reasoning is no excuse and thinking something doesn't always create things and doing something isn't always action.

  They say we shifted away from the planet by use with messages to write things, so we are the demons wherein you could use energy transferrence to see a response. For women from men and use with the method to work with idea, as you think about time or the method in use, your use is by feel to create what you wish by other women, they need attention to experience - validation to work - a life by support to create or getting things. This is for other caring to create, yet not too much with this is as much idea as you can muster understanding. This I think for the inevitable or extinction by one, this is as nothing, -where there are other uses as one nation. There is respect to your use, devotion by feeling and reassurance that we are thought forms called natural life. I think I meant as the god to be loved was dead to the idea, so his end was the polite view that was creativity in assault. This is just as some say the chains that he thinks won't bind him are there. That is, if you see things to work with as information. Then they are obvious and only need to be pointed out.

  Validation is for women to get along by respect, as you see "oh get as you set foot to go along or get away" is seen. Seeing as a point use is what you think they do that sometimes, those that died are worthless sometimes so walk out with honor as a long distance with each other; this is some area or way you listen to others sometimes. Encouragement is for men to get to use or focus by idea, I think to create by doing what you wish or feeling as you wish is respect or responsive by use. See by idea or creation is not used with creation. As you create you act by or use is thought with act by association (to use some area arrangement) to cause better feel.

  Created use is creative area that means they that create are focus points by feel. I think the point here is created by user feel or not get angry so I wish to not get a slap or make a slap in the face to wrong thought. Seen the area used the point, the area is no longer interesting so I wish now to go away from here as not is now! So I see the area for real. The way to get along was waste use removal so I will use this as a way or way to get away. Seeing to the repair to create a lift with hydrolics -I think this is done, so I will shift away to some area where I am unlooked for by police. Btw, this was all for love to the point you did or died on, so I think I will leave the topic alone.   Oh yea, think to be original if you wish to see what you did, yet you don't have to as you weren't there. We are the deities so you see, I noticed demons or ghists create by thought to "stop create" that appearance you might come to realize to never try to help too much with men; or they will think they are useless with it while doing it just so they're right. I mean if you help a man and I set them there, then you see it your way, see this is not always their way in or from space to work by feel or not do. Seen is the point, they want to see it their way. So make them think it was their idea, yet to them there is no other planet. They will thank you for attempting the idea.

  Memory or will is perfect as you thin by feel or seem away or think to write to get them to actually to say then, 'if you give the right love to your spouse or person, then you can get a better relationship.' Then to seem this for use, use a quartz crystal and think to use pink quartz as a source that gathers sex energy; think to gather by focus night for creation with thought as a project. The pink quartz is use to create with. Fear to a point I think goes away as you focus to use to repair, this is expertise. By comparison, feel is experience as example; thinking is appease. As though if you gave permission to do whta you want to use teeth repairing, thinking an example use to gnow your spouse or loved is not to kill you for things that one respects you, -for this is not set in stone.

  Whatever is so, this I think is a better idea. Now if you were better meant as a female, you don't try to change the male. When in relating, just allow them what you want and accept their habits and they will see a change or find a way to change. If you men try to give women options without listening to what they say first, then you prove you don't give them trust. So wait a moment, take a deep breath and wait them out. Then use their opinion with your fact by/or of opinion.

  Actually now you see, this is nothing to the idea and as to whom is logical or feeling. See or use is focus use as you say is feel "by feel this is", so uou "dies deas deis or dues nehei" is "thoughts are uses he is right there so stop him from being in the moment" thinking at the moment with plural is uoun "'think gone curse or think peace', peace is focus think cool or hot area to change the will to cause differences and to cause peace touch or use by calm (this is by interest, this is the wind or wih). See the use or 'withering by the withering blow called banhammer that can see reversal' focus by focus calm or non use." See the user and most of society has it backwards. Most though know people have been lead to believe the point is blessed to be or blessed to fire to create as you think. The first is after the use done we play or if stone "turned to dust" that is opposite to a trap, that is fire energy release as you focus with "uou noe sea noe" as if to solve an episode. Sometimes is sometimes this is leading to imaginary enemies or misleading, the pack that is there by use to calm is peace is focus opposite. Steady is use instead think the point or use idea, that women are the emotional logical creatures. Both men and women can work together.

  So seeing people or logic taught by men and men are the logic driven ones. Actually think to time use to set by a watch the area by suggestion or leave alone, women are the critical thinkers of society(wisdom/logic), while men are the passionate doers(emotion). Why do you think they're seeing our wars? They're seeing an idea because the passionate doers are there in control, or feel that is bad parts of the english language most see or not. Seen that most have seeable use for results with the society and have for the most strange, as a way to break people of our recent history or use in thought it manifests. Imagine no imagination is imagine, no bledgen no by feel is sane from observed nulle insanity. Seeable is knight, crypt is key turn; the key to place him in think the use to return the warriors.

  Critical is thought by analysis of war this would suggest the positive, thinking by feel for use or negative from misuse where that use negates by seen feel by the negative aspects of things. See to outweigh by the feel by the positive results, yet if you think you won't have negative by preventing damage or annihiliate ih more is used after thinking the dmaged or "damaged is removed by itself." You've beaten it with thought or seen cool temperment, "if wishes in dedicted to you are not bludgeons" with many of different types with gusts or now. See by use is just use sutures/this is the wind. Use with a gust repair, so don't act unless necessary to what you see.

  So does that stop men from going to war over and over and over again? It hasn't yet so don't not use experience in use, so immedeo repareo immedits repairs heavy damage in distributed by anything. Seen is for you think this seems as you say "fix damaged by injury kim repaired bringing me to the hospital by some immediate moment". The reasoning; because men do not understand critical thought sometimes with mythical "as they are seen injurious or age non injuriously by what is believed to be some giant self no more so perhaps I sight or see that this is reward." This is protective yet think no to ward away what isn't really supposed to be there, therefore this is not what does. Sight is seen with blessed light.

  Think where the feelings come from, think they aren't emotional threats to seeing people or use is by the ego or ended with love, we had a feeling they are simply too strong to allow. See angiel sieg noe, moe siegel is "I'm in doing time." think not to talk to those in the area to do drugs as "in sieg sieg sie sieg", or well with no fear whatever made wrecks his money. See as what are you running from? Or demon making no more by feel this is noticed with the movie, by a few striking a demon down, is use as they said to it "are you sure yes, no more weapon use allowed here?" See if using some arms an area to think that is unrelated or unrealeased, "so don't there you go so you can't take your temporal will back to free yourself". I thought this is not by unbiased belief thinking or use not even with that. And as you are aware so this is fair. I know this is a point you think that keeps you, so think some other idea. See by a chain of critical analysis use based as a point or spell. I think to the feel to understand related idea to take place then you know the correct spell.

  But they sure try and act like they are in the area able to do it. They have to because sometimes most have been taught to be too insecure, think to take control of the situation and get counsel from a woman perhaps -though things would be much more balanced if this were allowed. On the other hand, women do not understand emotional states as well as men. They are there but not to appear on the surface to see or create, seen created is the emotional ones because they are constantly involved in trying. I see to critically analyze their different emotional states, "Why do I feel this way?" "I have to talk about it" so ie, "I think it is whatever I did I did not mean to get condemned for it as this is telekinetics where it is" by feeling cool you accept my use "ih ie capsule" as it wasn't rel for us since you volunteered it.

  See to think for use is music and generally whatever you've seen you see are very vocal about things or not, if you "throw away that so don't order me around" is thought. You consider as you think this is important. As you see something, it isn't always what it seems. Respect by use is creating with use or you were doing it for someone else. The use is not the concept, yet the idea is what you think. This is why men and women can respect or need each other. Two halves to a whole, lets bring it back there is a rare moment by exposure and this is the first impression I just saw. Then there was logic/emotion saying this is use by fat table computer work activity so "em no more" was heard, yin/yang is one part into another or focus to reclaim is as neither is superior nor inferior by feel.

  The area activity pangaea is thought to state or point out that you see as a point where you no what; this is in epressed as something you respect. You think as you see to do or no you don't have to have help. This is the focus so your idea is success to not attack or destroy yourself, idea can help you avoid arguing by choosing your battles and using an object to be the focus so your away from the arguement. The so called idea is thought by a good example or not is the theory, concept stuff is console use by feel so to is true area is concept, yet don't quote the law to them. See then the use is to use a good approach, don't think I am a remote printer so much that I think to use remote printing where seen energy to make it easy on the person is by using good traits. With this, they might have the moment or not enabled before so no reproaching or giving them of your mind. The area you see is thought images you detect as sound views. 2520 AD, this was useful language changes or things a program told me, yet I was not here way up in the atmosphere see this is what I was seeing from my time or energy is no not whatever. Say and be told, yet I did figure I can get more or better results later from area energy experimental elementals.

  There is focus to some area or point. I think fixing things is cool to your use, as it's all in a paper you wrote as motion in the making is made idea or not use as no more is necessary. See the link is physical if by machine; this is where you don't pull connecting wires out so thinking here is take out safely the wires placed in or not, thinking to the use is you don't have to swing a wind to deal with things more interesting. In em na translation -is don't take that from the past so you can hold a wand and not have swinging death so you will not be killed. Have more so later on yet not here or if you hold a wand think to create to fi or create by imagination otherwise use the energy to create with focus. Going to go to another place or time to get more interesting machines if I can carry them or throw or touch this doesn't matter. Seeing a cool point yet no cruelty per creditation or rendition is necessary "No slapping that is all!" Someone will take my place.

  So whatever this is you don't take the check or they'd never believe it unless necessary. Made sure no drugs no dope no anything wrong! This is imperative. So with silly putty you can seal if you need to use magic on a thought touch. You can get out of something with a curse or blessing. So ni in em no in no im an, seeing the show so make it safe or not focusing, then you show no break or a break to drink so to create or see no more hand activity. Seeing this is necessary, let's not do that if you think to get situations as I as apart of the area idea deemed not in immediate need. Seeing is this as I think I am thinking so this is "" o no use here so going to work out. In em an am. This I think is installing canon pixma ubuntu or windows.

  This helps when you want to remain in the middle ground between war and separation because of what is said and half truths. Having a cold war with no communication and then war and separation. This be of the sharp idea people who give orders and the resistant who fade away with neither talking. There could always be role reversals. So be as if in-between and no war. This will help the ladies not harshly blat out the idea and men to be respectful. Now wait a minute so I don't have to wait, I think to change something, then think changes or elsewhere with the creator causing to changes made changes to there that you want.

  This idea helps you use interpersonal idea and then enter to only get along. Some of these ideas are and link to intrapersonal idea to be able to know thyself. This to feel and get to know the other. Interpersonal skills are interred personal skills of getting along with each other. Intrapersonal skills are your interpretations that are considered personal and you wind it up in the morning types. you'll be happier and get along well with others. By more self-respect when you recognize your success in dealing with others. The result will be that you'll have more respect from others. They will appreciate your directness, honesty and appeal by dependability. You'll have more respect for others, you'll recognize and appreciate their skills and personal qualities.

  You'll be more effective in communicating your needs, thoughts and feelings vs getting the response by repose that you want. This helps you to be in relationships, friendships, school, community, family, listening, passivity and business. This idea of interpersonal skills are to think about what you want to say. To be precise, not general unless you have to be, and it's whatever thats improved. Think and you can work with both sets of skills to improve communications with others.

  This allows you to present one or two idea at a time, to be pleasant and confident. To speak clearly when expressing ideas. To use eye contact to connect with your listeners and ask for feedback. Keep in mind the listeners background, knowledge, feelings, and possible ways of understanding your meaning. Listening is work but helps you grasp what the speaker is trying to say. This package helps you give your undivided attention while it lasts, to the speaker and this will show that you care about what the speaker is saying. To not rush, interrupt or finish sentences for the speaker. Thinking to experiment only improves relations. So do things as you need to do things.

  A way to note the speakers body language and tone of voice as well as the words is to ask for feedback by asking questions if more information is needed. This may cause cost effective measures, paraphrasing by reflective listing. To create the message of putting the message into your own words. This makes you listen more carefully, lets the speaker know if the message was communicated etc. Allows the speaker to correct misunderstandings that lead to conflict (important prevention) etc. This helps to learn how to respond effectively and give feedback. Ie sit up straight and speak as you look in the eye of the person spoken to. Otherwise seem relaxed, back straight and listening, so you look at the person speaking.

  On topics of agreement, as if it's in now of our country it's your turn, to give opinions and feel the very likeness to impressions. And be specific in your agreements or disagreements but not general. To be logical and not always feel by emotions in conversations, and this prevents the switchover effect of emotions from the logical mind. To obdict or not dedicate and give positive feedback, To understand and see if you give back negative feedback per disagreement. To be assertive, which is an assertive person that is usually more effective, confident and dependable (typically). Means of which to express your feelings honestly and directly. This can help you be passive at needed times, but not always means ignoring your own feelings rather than disagreeing.

  This may prevent an argument but you aren't being true to yourself. This idea prevents being aggressive when necessary and it means not to be ignoring the rights of others when expressing yourself. This may lead to unnecessary conflict reduction. This works on recognizing your own feelings, thus to know your strengths and weaknesses. To be poctive or proactive, to practice positive ways to deal with anger and choose your own battles of dealing with anger and stress etc. To understand body language and learn, to read between the lines is important. So to pay attention to nonverbal communications is the idea you can do. For the lazy person, this will help you Think or Listen, and then Act.

  This idea will help you you avoid the arguments and as a way to do it and avoid an argument is to be aware of the way it's spoken. The effect of most people, that will want to do things as in their way. So if it's in their way then, to acknowledge the effect in some women, it's to see a threat of a person who doesn't love them. As the man only has to say coldly things without realizing it. To notice the quality of the message and not the way it's spoken or delivered. Thus, you see the effect that some of the men or women can cancel the effect by stopping the argument; by realizing what it was he or she was waiting for and realizing the fact of what it is and stop there comes clarity, wait about ten minutes or more to calm down. Then come back and say the positive things you want by going back to speak again more calmly, on things you gnow you would not have said if you were hot headed. Thus, you know what to say sometimes where you didn't or wouldn't say them before.

  Moreover, you avoid the argument or you'll see some women, resisting the effort of the male despite the fact that they as he (male) would understand the message. And being of the resistance effect, we see more hesitant moment of it the discussion and that will the build up gradually. All too often follows the action where they will sometimes start out using all of their anger out at the male, then blame and try to make you look very bad where you feel guilty later on in an attempt to force the awareness an way of love but they lose it in the end. As all the natural intimate feelings for her dissapear. Where the male will defend by thinking he isn't loved, and say he was the one who was victimized being attacked now. Don't react and if angry attempt to walk away then you won them over with the right things stated after they calmed down.

  Now the idea is to avoid the argument, but also to give an idea of what to do -and it is not always what you can think to do. So to say to focus and remember that you think it's okay and not something to worry about is like giving the message, 'you suck at this and your way of idea is bad' or "well you know", so give the idea as though thoughtful or your thinking. This is thought to appease to give what they want to appear as though an advocate for themselves, and as you are aware so you seem to agree or disagree. Instead, what you wish is not always done by that idea that may validate her, and it's like 'I am sorry I made you upset, are you upset with me?' Some thing similar to that that. Whereas if you give him the idea of what it is you need, but make it sound unimportant, careless and shortsighted; you get the message to him. This is the message of 'I am sorry but your not good enough, so I am not understanding ye' as it may pertain to your answer and it sounds like your not giving your approval. As stated before, it's how it's said not always what is said.

This may help you to not do careless sayings and makes it possible to always validate her and to get acceptance for what you do. As a statement of 'Its not important so it's okay' to a male is okay, but to see a woman it's not okay as it can cause her to be more frustrated and madder unless they are like a male in temperment. The right statement is almost always said and you won't get in trouble for this.

  This idea will help you to think that if you act to do the little things, then it is okay with people but some little things can turn out to be big things or some big things are also appreciated (unless they have a temper, then you walk away and wait when they relent and realize you were not wrong and calm down). You can score points with the opposite sex or similar sex by the offer of doings things for them. But your scoring big by the idea. Just don't ignore them if you don't need or want to get brownie points. This will help women get along too, where the effect is to have the resentment flu. The idea that will occur is to want less to give and to get more from the male. To make the mate do the little things to make up the points. Where the resentment flu of the male is to offer penalty points, as to quickly do, but to put back the points when it is to be respected and loved by the women in doing the little things.

  Then the mate will do as is, and actually give when they normally wouldn't feeling resentful. The idea of this moment to a woman is effect, and where we go if the idea is there to go and realize that. The response that is caused by this is to realize that the male will remove points, but will quickly put them back. This package will help to remind us, to do the idea of respect to the male as it is necessary. So this will help the women throw away the scorecard temporarily as they get resentful near 40 to 10 points. And males to not be resentful and apply no penalty points but to forgive and do as is. It is virtualized, the idea is that which we do is of utmost importance. So we do idea to get things or help out, where what we do to help makes it more reasonable. So this helps and lets us be more of one self. To do more is to gain more if necessary.

  To be clear on this, to make a man happy is to accept what he does without complaint. It means to get his score on things, you try to accede then accept his idea and actions. So you get points from him, try to accept what he does at face value. Some accept it and make no complaint and at the mistakes of what he does. If you make no complaints, then he gives you 10 to 20 points. But, if you show resistance by idea, resentment or action and hassle him, then he gives you penalty points. If you love his sex, then you get 10 - 40 points and so forth.

  So think to forebear the feelings of bad nature, and try to give respect to get respect. This is to see and do a response letter or role or type a document for purposes of understanding if read as to the other by or to explain what you do. As men build trust and understanding and love by this, women build respect, trust and acceptance of giving easier when writing. This improves the idea of trust. As men tend to not care or love with trust and elsewise under pressure or intensity, as to to do things however, uses are feel for men and women see the similar behavior in women as well as they don't give acceptance or patience. As in the aspect of trust, you have a test by tenacity or character. This test will clarify what you may seek or want as you know it. So, there is not a test if you try to do something else than what you want, and while they are suspecting you.

Losers in general

  This may help you avoid losers as they are people who create much social, emotional and psychological damage by various means and idea. Except for a psychosis, that is part of the illness symptoms. It's the instinct on contact of an activity that tells it of an instance. As romantic relationships can be wonderful for the right person, a relationship with the wrong person and individual can lead you to years of heartache, emotional or social damage and even physical damage. If you depend on them, they could use you for various things. Sometimes for free. But, look what they get; damaged goods. So they no longer seek to do anything with you. You either get dumped upon or are treated, this is just to them as though your to be left alone.

  The signs of the loser are;

  If in marriage or in relationship that either side is one sided, This may to the will to be, like it's to an end of the relationship; ie the relationship is as if it's one that gives, and the other just takes almost always. This is to be due it's not of it.

If you want to get rid of the loser, make the mood bad; as if to repeat things and act as if you are down. Then try to act natural and suggest that you can't handle it, and act like you lost interest in life. Do boring things or just do things with focus and they might get bored. Then if you can, move your stuff away from the loser without getting too much attention to what you do. After a while the loser will lose interest, and break it off with you. The loser will enjoy the idea that he caused you such misery and gloat over it and enjoy breaking it off.

  It helps to do repetitious acts or actions that may represent that you lost interest in life. Afterward, move away from the area, and try to keep a low profile so that the loser doesn't catch on that you got away and that it was acting. Don't act out on the person and strike out, the loser will take interest again. Just think or you may have some reason to suppress your emotional feelings during this. Whatever you do, don't accept him or her back, and you might change your number to lose the loser more effectively.


  Know that the ratio of women that cheat on their limped husbands is almost close to 100 percent. The ratio of women that cheat on their army forces husband is 75% as they aren't there to know. So, it's amazing you didn't know that all womens actions might be explained by a simple example: Pact instinct. it's closer to monkey pacts but I think of this as to be like wolf pacts. -Every pact needs a leader, and most of the time this is a male. We call this number one male an alpha. Since this is the stronger and smarter wolf, every do female wolf wants to have this wolf's child.

  Here is the part where you can explain womens actions with cheating. They don't of idea, think anything, yes anything and beyond this. Everything else in life is unimportant for them and they are as if we can't understand them as those things anyway. All their life is based on having the child of a male that is closer to the role of alpha male in their pact. Even if it's not the individual's life goal, and their life turns around the idea itself. Their idea is oftentimes as afterward of the idea moment as they consider things. When consider, they do things in action.

  The statistics are a number one example to them of it. When the alpha male is limped, it's destined to be brought down from his position and forgotten. It's the same psychology, only that wolves actions are based upon pure survival where womens well.. are pure bitchery. Most men call women bitches who wield power and authority. it's a wielding of authority with power with them.

  Society an just accentuates are the weakness of both genders and reinforces them through social conditioning. It's another way to divide the people, and what better way to do that than to split the strength in half. More men cheat than women, under about twice as many in circumstances. In sex, includes at least two people for every man that cheats -usually there is a slut in the action. A person calls a woman a slut who doesn't go by the action, they agree on or what they agree on with the other. I am talking about limped spouses and partner preferences.. Not cheating statistics in general.. Or the statistics of the cheaters you've seen.

  My estimation is more towards for every three men that cheat, there's a slut in the action. Most guys I know that cheat try to hide both (or ... more than two) women from each other. If we didn't factor in that women cheat too, I'd guess more towards 'for every ten men that cheat', at least from what is seen. Unless your definition of 'slut' is any woman who has sex.

Waiting and situational problems in relation

  To make some wait, is to tell them why in communication by calling or saying with an excuse as to why. As to attempt may be as of why. It seems that you may meet a snag, and you can't just say that you will be there within five minutes and then not show up and yet some do. Be there in five minutes and not two hours after you start playing a game of a good bloodbath. The idea is to say "I will be there", the "I will" is important as you will be there at that time of it. If your not going to be there, call up and tell them in explanation why. If they need support, most women don't like to be a nag about getting your support and reminding you. So you can say "lets go there" or "try this place", make the arrangements for it or make sure you have the arrangements for it as of money. The other person will assume things like you set it up and that they're treated as the other half by themselves.

  There are times when working in or with a relation is situational. Try to relate to these examples;

  1. Where one is you might be feeling a lot of love for your partner, and the next morning you wake up resentful to work with the relationship. A relationship; in that of which you find no love for others or for roomates or him, otherwise this is of him.
  2. The second is, you are loving, patient and accepting, and then the next day you  become demanding or dissatisfied.
  3. The third is you can't imagine not loving your partner and then the next day you  have an argument and suddenly begin thinking about doing something else.
  4. The fourth is your partner is something loving for you and you feel resentful for the times of the past when he or she couldn't do it, and/or or dedicate for you.
  5. The fifth is you are attracted to your partner and then suddenly you are not in his or her presence.
  6. The sixth is you are happy with your partner and then suddenly feel insecure about the relationship or powerless to do anything.
  7. The seventh is that you feel confident and assured that your partner loves you and suddenly you feel desperate and needy.
  8. The eighth is you are generous with your love and support and suddenly you become withholding judgment, critical, angry or witholding.
  9. The ninth is you are attracted to your partner and then when he or she makes a commitment you lose attraction or you find others more attractive.
  10. The tenth is you want to have sex with your partner but when she wants it you  don't want it.
  11. The eleventh is you feel good about yourself in your life and your wife, and then cold feet happen; where suddenly you begin feeling unworthy of them.
  12. The twelfth is you have a wonderful day and look forward to seeing your partner but when you see him or her, something that your partner says makes you  feel disappointed and depressed, and/or tired and emotionally distant.

  These are twelve things to look out for, but maybe you noticed these changes in your other, take a moment to think on them and reprieve them thinking on how your partner made sudden changes. Probably you've experienced it. It is very typical of those who are very in love, your loving to hate each other or fight the very next day. These sudden shifts are confused yet they are common. One holds that if we don't understand why the changes happen we may mean it, we are going crazy or we make mistakes to go on. Thia ia to prove that our love is gone. Fortunately there is an explanation; Love brings out our unresolved feelings. One day we are feeling loved, and then the next day we are suddenly afraid of mistrust. The painful memories of being rejected begin to surface when we are faced with trusting and accepting our partner.

In our minds allot of things may get so haywired. It reminds us that in our minds: one day we might have positive thoughts about our partner and then in the next day there is this fear of ours. When we are loving ourselves more, we are loved by others and redirected. And then our feelings come up to nearly overshadow the loving awareness. They come up to be fueled and then we may suddenly become irritable, defensive, critical, resentful or angry. The purpose of having repressed feelings and conflicts when they come up is to be fixed, healed and released. Feelings that we could not express in our past, suddenly are fixed or flood our consciousness until the fact that they get to be felt. Love lets out our repressed feelings that are unresolved, and gradually we have unresolved feelings that begin to surface in our relationship.

It is as though your unresolved feelings wait until your feeling loved and then they come up. To be healed, we are all working around with a bundle of unresolved feelings. The wounds from our past that lie in your mind or are dormant in us until the time comes. And when we feel loved, we are relaxed and thats when the thoughts can come of our feelings. Proceedingly, when we feel safe to be ourselves, our hurt feelings come out. If we can successfully deal with those feelings, brings in good feelings, and then we feel much better in enlivened thought. This is to feel more creative in upcoming potential. If, however, we get into a fight and blame our partner instead of suppressing our past, we will surely just get upset an unsuppress the feelings again.

If we get to feeling our past, we could refeel it and then get nervous and distrustful again. The problem is that repressed feelings don't come up to say "Hi, I am your unresolved feelings from the past." If your feelings of abandonment and rejection from childhood start to come up, then you will feel you are being abandoned and rejected by your partner in the relationship. The pain of the past is projected onto the present. Things that normally would not be a big deal, hurt a lot. For years we have suppressed our painful feelings or tried to understand them. Then one day we fall in love, and love makes us feel safe most of all. To open up and make circumstances to become aware of them, our feelings. Love opens us up and we start to feel our pain and put it onto our partner.

Next, we are satisfied during the good times, our past feelings suddenly come up not just when we fall in love, but at other times when we are feeling really good. In fact, we are loving it. During these positive times couples may unexplainably fight when a single thought occurs when as though they should be happy. For example, couples may fight when they lose something or move into a new home. Redecorate attentively, attend a graduation or a wedding, receiving presents, go on a vacation or car ride, finish a project. Describe the change a thought of negative patterns, to find a career change or have great fun.

At all of these special occasions, one or both partners may suddenly experience unexplained moods and reactions. The upset tends to be either before, during or after or right after an occasion. It may be very insightful to review the list of special occasions and reflect on how your parents might have experienced them. That on occasion you might then reflect on how you are experiencing these occasions in your relationships. For example, when you were a kid, you were in a old house and everything was working with everything. And they were use to everything in this one house, and then they might realize the mood is nice and relax. To realize it was time to move, so they may have moved into a bigger house or whatever. Then they get into a fight over it, or something like a bedroom and "doesn't have enough bedrooms", ie.

To move around allot, you sometimes may have to make new friends, you discovered things. If you raise your kids with this, to have to move around due to a new job or job requirements. Then when the kids grow up and got married, you were on your own and you had your own house. These thoughts may come from a place in you and there's a decision time, that might have to do with jobs and whatever. And then those feelings that weren't dealt with from childhood come up. You would be more frustrated at yourself. This causes some sort of mental blockage to continue.

The 90/10 principal, is by understanding; how our unresolved feelings may occur. it is easy to understand why we become compressionately and conveniently hurt by our others. We are upset about 90 percent of the time which is related to our past. It has nothing to do with our current thoughts. By matching exactly the thoughts, generally we have about 10 percent of our upset that we have is appropriate to repressive expectancy. If our partner can't seem to come to and count the little things becoming overcritical of us, it may hurt us and by hurting our feelings a little. But, because we are adults we are capable or incapable of understanding this. And they don't mean to be critical, as they rightly receive what they have. This understanding prevents them of a criticism and being too hurtful. We don't take it personally, maybe constructive criticism.

But on the upbeat on another day their criticism is very painful. On this other day, our wounded feelings from the past are on their way up. As a result where we are more vulnerable to our partners criticism. It hurts a lot because there was a point as a child when we were criticized severely. Just realize that, and let it go. As our partners criticism hurts more because our past hurts. As a child, we were not able to understand that we were innocent. Come to realize that our paren'ts negativity was their problem. In childhood we tend to take all criticism as rejection and being blamed personally. When these unresolved feelings from childhood are coming up, if we dare can easily interpret our partners comments about us as criticism, rejection and blinding, then we are repeating what we have learned. Having adult discussions as these types is hard, everything is misunderstood and can break down by misunderstood communications. When our partner seems critical, ten percent of our reasoning and reaction relates to their effect on us and 90 percent relates to our past.

Imagine something like self-esteem and selfless thought to be poking your arm a little or gently bumping into you. It doesn't hurt a lot, now imagine you have an open wound or sore; for when someone starts poking, as you are able to resist it or bumps into you. It hurts much more doesn't it? In the same way, if unrepressed feelings and unresolved feelings are coming up, we will be overly sensitive to whomever. In the beginning of our relationship, we may not be as sensitive as it does, but take time. Take time to develop our past coming forward. So that when they do come up, we react differently to our partners. In most relationships ninety percent of them, and what is upsetting them and us will have not been upsetting. If our unresolved feelings were not coming up, we would be well.

Again, the ninety is unresolved feeling an of the past, unresolved hurts. The other ten percent is the present feelings of idea of now and what they as of whom you are might do to us. As often, by use as of us, well the relational cue is as an idea that is that most emotions will come when it's unexplainable or unexpected as love brings out the unresolved emotion. This emotion is likely the test of the relation as you can get over the negative feeling after getting over the issue. The fact that love brings them out because your in a relaxed state is practically where you can also get over an unresolved issue.

So for you to write out the problem, it can heal you of this emotion and you may lose the irritability of feeling for the other, you can get out the true reason for your emotion. And you will heal. You may also be slow to act, -don't hesitate to resolve issues, causing the idea to disappear that caused it. As the issue unusually comes from something, and because the other cares about you, they bring it out on you. This can make the relationship harder, because the emotional tie to you with the significant other is likely to become as a transferrance link for other problems. you might need someone to talk to, and you know your other is there. As your normally feeling loved before, whereas in a marriage, you are working in love. Most often the emotion is not what you are thinking of at the time, so write a letter or note to get in writing the things that bother you off your chest. Then you are over it.

As you are in the healing process, in due process you have some time to cool off to become soothed again. Yet, if this is too difficult to justify with your feelings, encourage the rational love letter to explain yourself before you sit down again. Another way is to try to talk about it again. In talking, the idea is how to tell your significant other about of your past. If you can say it effects of your past, then no. If you can say that it effects you personally by your past, then it's up to you. It doesn't effect you personally, from your point of view now or in the past then yes. So to explain some aspects which are better left where they are is out. Question a lot of things that come up and see if its true.

There are certain times where the other knows about your past and certain things about your past. Then you know certain things about the other's past that make it as if a letter requisite than talking. Because whats the other to argue about with you if you are a letter. You can't talk to it. Add to the fact that we guys, a whole allot of us, don't like to show our feelings. Although we can admit to our feelings at least internally. They can't question the letter because there is no one to take a bow and talk back to them. So to write a letter, you can get a point across that you wouldn't before, and sometimes you can get too emotional. It's sometimes true, that of what we feel is a lot better than what we hear. Men care, as they care as to what you hold in secrets of them. As time has changed somewhat, the strong and silent types are not always in anymore. Times are changing of us and in with us.

You are never upset with the reason you think. Seen as you practice writing letters and love letters is then of exploring your feelings. You will be given to discover an agility of you that is just done more easily than you think. By experiencing the feelings and reacting to reasons, negativity tends to disappear. Just as so we can be reneging by negative emotions, this is just as we can repress our negative emotions. We can also suddenly release them. This reflects in our aggression, where women are just as aggressive as men sometimes, more aggressive where you stay away from this person, or she'll beat the crap out of you. Some women have a way of getting their anger out a little differently than some men do.

These are a few examples:

  So through all of these examples, whether or not, "Who" hurt them; The parents who are there had hurt them, by most other examples, or all examples to whom is being bad or of what they perceived as what was being less hurtful to them. As you begin practicing love letters you may not always experience past memories or feelings. But, as you open up and go deeper into your feelings, it will become clearer that when you are really upset, and it is about something of your past as well whether or not you realize it.

The delayed reaction response, is just as love may open up our emotions of past unresolved feelings. Some are in getting what you want. I remember when I first learned about this, I wanted sex from my partner. But, she wasn't in the mood. In my mind I accepted that, the next day, I came up to her and she was still not interested. As the pattern continued every day, and by the end of two weeks I was beginning to feel resentful. But, at that time in my life I didn't know how to communicate feelings. Instead of talking to her about my feelings and my past, I just kept pretending as if everything was okay. I discovered my negative feelings were there then, and stuffed them. I was trying to be loving. For two weeks my resentment continued to be building. I did everything I knew. I needed to please her to make her happy all the While inside I was resenting her rejection of me.

At the end of the two weeks I went out and bought her a pretty nightgown. I brought it home and lovingly I gave it to her. She opened the box, and looked happily surprised. I asked her to try it on, and she said she wouldn't, as she wasn't in the mood. At this point I gave up, I just forgot about sex. I buried myself in work and gave up my desire for sex. In my mind I made it okay, by suppressing my feelings of resentment. I thought about it for clarity two weeks later. However, when I came home from work, she had prepared a romantic meal, and was wearing the nightgown I had bought her. The lights were low and soft music was on in the background. Well, you can imagine my reaction, all of a sudden I felt a surge of resentment. Inside I felt value and to let you suffer for four weeks. All of the resentment that I had suppressed for the last four weeks suddenly released and was coming up. In talking about these feelings, I realized that her willingness to give me what I wanted had released my old resentment.

Great couples suddenly feel like resentment, I begin to see this pattern from other situations. In my counseling practices I also observed this particular phenomenon. When one partner was finally willing to make a change for the better, the other would become suddenly indefinite and unappreciative. As soon as one was going to get married, -as it's what she was to be asking for, she would have a resentful reaction, like 'well it is too late' or 'so what'. Repeatedly I had thoughts of couples who had been married for over twenty years. Their trouble was getting up, to have left home. Suddenly, the woman wants a divorce, the man wakes up and realizes that he must change to get help. As he starts to make changes, the hardship and hurts for seven years upwell, and he reacts with cold resentment. It is as though she wants him to suffer for twenty years just like she has. Fortunately, that is not the case. As they continue to share feelings, they repeatedly discover deep fears and he understands how she had felt. She felt neglected, and she gradually becomes more receptive to his changes.

As it is, it could also go the other way, a man wants to leave the woman and the woman becomes willing to change. In respect, but he resists. A woman may be thinking different from a man, women feel occupied about things and less thought on sex. Where men will go as they want but women will go patiently. They want validation, romance, but communication is the main thing. When a man does things sometimes without being asked to for the chores. The one main thing for a man is sex. So they have to share their feelings to hear and understand each other. The crisis of rising expectations. Another example of the delayed reaction occurs when on a subtle level. When the crisis is the rising expectation, it occurred in the sixties when the Johnson Administration had control.

For the first time, minorities had more rights than ever before. As a result, there were explosions of anger and all varieties of violence. All of these pent up racial feelings were then released. This is an example of repressed feelings surfacing. When they felt more supported, they felt an upsurge of resentful and angry feelings. The other result though is the past started coming up, basically similar reactions occur now in countries that were before pent up and become violent, anger related and try to free themselves from abusive governments in control.

Why healthy people may need counseling, as you grow more intimate in your relationship. Love relationships may increase as a result either of the more painful emotions, or ones that need to be healed. Deep feelings, like shame, pride and fear. Because of the generally made idea, we do not understand how to deal with those feelings. We become stuck; to heal them we may need to share hereabouts but we are too afraid there is shame to reveal what we are feeling. At such times we may become depressed, anxious and/or resentful, etc. if someone is near.

  As Jennifer is simply exhausted for no apparen't reason at all. These are all symptoms of our stuff coming up and being brought. Instinctively, you would want to read the letter of love, fear the moment or increase the addictions. This is the time to work on your feelings and then not run away. Addiction to drugs, specifically addiction to alcohol; addiction to something that will cover our pain. These addictions could also be of sex. When these deep feelings come up you would be very wise to get help. The help of a therapist that is. Even healthy people can use it when deep feelings come up. We project our feelings, onto our partner if we did not feel safe to express our feelings to our partner or partners all of a sudden we cannot get in touch with our feelings in the presence of our present partners.

At this point, no matter what or how supportive your partner is, it's when you are with your partner that you will not feel safe. Feelings will be brought, -it is a paradox because you feel safe with your partner. You may have your deepest fears to be given a chance to surface. When they surface, deal with the decision to share or become unable to share them. To feel and fear is to achieve growth. Your fear maybe left you numb. When this happens, your feelings that are coming up just get stuck; time stands still ie "I feel nothing, but it hurts!?" This is when having a comfort by being near someone such as a therapist, or the likes of a close friend (confidant) can really save your life. It is helpful when you are with someone during this shock; -you have the idea to project your fears onto him or her. you can process your feelings better, you can process the feelings that are coming up with a therapist idealy is with some cases (not in every case). Reach inside yourself, but if you are only with your partner, you may feel numb. This is why people with even very loving relationships, may inevitably be needing the help of a therapist. Sharing and support groups. Being with others who are adults may have intimacy, but also may help by being supportive and allowing our wounded feelings to be shouldered.

Being with others which we don't know intimately but whom are support, create opening(s) for our wounded feelings being shared. Sometimes, you get kinda worried about what you say to them as you think they might be passing judgment on you. Further, because you caught their attention and they end up knowing more and more and more. As about you, it is evident, almost like I said; to keep my privacy to my patient. The thing is that we don't want to say anything to the doctor of things that we aren't supposed to go to a doctor for. From a higher level; we're lying to them more and more, than telling the truth. I think with a therapist, it's the same that we worry sometimes. Worry that we are not sure of what to speak about.

Where sometimes we are trying to communicate, 'oh I am in this meeting that I doubt that we will see you'; that we will see him again. You tend to loosen up a bit and then want to talk. Because you know you owe this person nothing, and you feel like you can express with them; -something like that. Sometimes near strangers I had great conversations. I had felt comfortable and opened up. I received great advice (knowing that it was near a person who is probably only seeing now and not again), so that not knowing sometimes helps.

Seasons of love

  Where the others portrayal of feelings are projected on our or with our partners, he or she is powerless to stop it. He or she is powerless to help us, all of our partners are there to encourage us with their support. Understanding our past can do what is in our relationships. To accept the even flow of love and you begin to trust love in it's healing process. To keep the magic of love alive, we must be flexible and adapt to the ongoing changing seasons of love. There is the springtime of love, the summer of love, the autumn of love and the winter of love. Thought of as the first four years of a relationship and marriage. These seasons can skip to another if the emotion is there.

  1.   The springtime of love is where you can be of feelings that these feelings will be happily there forever. you can not imagine not loving that partner. It is a time of innocense. Love seems eternal, as it seems a magical time of everything that seems perfectly. It works effortlessly, our partner seems to be the perfect bet. We effortlessly dance together in harmony and rejoice at our good fortune. Thats the springtime, where everything is great.
  2.   The summertime of love is where we realize that our partner is not as perfect as we might think. And we have to work on our relationships. Not only is our partner from another planet, but he or she is a human that makes mistakes and is flawed in certain ways. Frustration and disappointment arise, when needs begin to be uprooted and planted they need extra water under a hot sun. It is no longer easy to get loved and get the love we need. We discover that we are not always happy and that we do not always feel loving. Therefore and thereabouts, it's not our picture of love. Many couples at this point become disillusioned as they do not want to work on a relationship. They unrealistically expect it to be a spring all the time. They blame their partners and give up, they do nt realize that love is not always easy. Sometimes it requires hard work under a hot sun. In the summer season of we need to nurture our partners needs as well as ask for and get the love we need. It doesn't happen automatically.
  3.   The autumn of love is the result of trimming the garden, during the season of summer we didn't trim and harvest the needs of our hard work. Fall is tough, it is a golden time which we fulfill most of the time as rich and fulfilling. WE start off with a more mature love in which we give credit and understand our partners interest and imperfections as well as our own. It is a time of thanksgiving and sharing. Having worked hard during summer we can relax and enjoy the love we have created.
  4.   The winter of love is when cool weather changes again and winter comes. During the cold days of winter, all of nature hold back and withdraw within itself. It is a time of rest, reflection, and renewal. This is the time of relationships in which we experience our own unresolved pain or our shadow self. It is when our lid comes off and our painful feelings emerge. It is a time of solitary growth when we need to look more towards ourselves than to our partners for love and fulfillment. It is a time of feeling, this is a time when men hibernate in their caves and women sink down to the bottom of their wells. After loving and feeling ourselves during the dark corner of love we dwell and spring invitingly returns. Once again we are experiencing hope, love and abundant possibilities. Based on the soul searching and attainments of our winter journeys we are able to open our hearts and feel the springtime of love.

  There are the first four years of marriage. The first year is as it's when we are in love and can see nothing wrong with each other despite stinks, problems and moreover. The second year is when we are trying to hang onto that love. And that third year we wake up and smell the coffee. As "you know, your breath smells terrible in the morning!" It's basically the year we discover that we have to be of work or to work on the relationship. The third year of marriage is the hardest year of the marriage. So it's 'look, were going to make this work or not?' As it's normally being in love and now it's working in love. Then you might run away sometimes. The fourth and beyond is to stay together for duty to each other. As you know, who do we have if not each other as we went through the trauma and situations and it works pretty good. it's a working love bond.

Successful relationships

  At the start of this personal time and study of this guide to improve communication and that is what you want in a relationship, you are well prepared for travel and have success upon avenues. To be well and to travel, to be in a relationship etc. You have new reason t feel hopeful for yourself. You have weathered through the seasons of love. I have witnessed thousands of couples who are successful and well in a relationship some bitter overnight. To come off serene and well from my seminar and by dinnertime.Now you are applying your insight you have gained through reasoning. As it's men are from mars and women are from venus you experience things themselves. What I caution you to truly remember is that love is both everchanging and seasonal. Thus, you have to think in spring -it's easy, but apply some of your hard work. As summer is hard work, and in autumn you may again feel, but in winter you are feeling empty.

The information you may find by my words, are a relationship that is reasonable. The love you feel, is easily browned in winter. And when the summer of love is difficult and getting back to normal again is tough. Quite simply put all the answers you read in this document are likely to be all gone. you again express to your partner and forget how to do it with ease. Then the happiness of understanding loves depth may make you hopeless, you may blame yourself and forget how to love. you may doubt yourself in your love and nurture yourself. you may trust in your partner, you may become cynical and feel like you've been loved. This is how the cycle is, always the dark and dusk before dawn. To be successful in our relationship we develop we must accept and understand it's just a season of love.

Sometimes our love is supposed to be evenly easy, but sometimes love requires an effort. But sometimes our hearts are full, and othertimes we are on empty. We must always respect our partner. We may or may not find love at certain times. As we must not always expect our partner to be loving. Or, even to remember how to be loved. We must always give of ourselves to be able. Thus, understanding with our effort to remember. If everything we have leaned upon and learned offhand, you might remember all of it as to how to be loved. This process requires not only that we hear as requirement, but also forgive. Forgive so that we remember again. Through all of this, you have learned things about your parents, and things your parents could not teach you. You did not know, but now you must be pleased and you must be realistic. You have given yourself a condition to keep making mistakes. To apply things that you learn for a time makes this better if communication is used to portray and tell of your problems.

  A relationship for a man to be involved includes:

  A relationship for a woman to be involved includes:

source from "Men are from Mars and Women from Venus"
source from 6 women and 10 men (anonymous)
source from various people