is face? Face is the ancient japanese and chinese idea of honor. In
this honor system, what you aren't caught at doing, you will find great
reward for. What you are caught doing, its a shameful act unless its a
act of kindness. A saying of this honor system "What is unseen won't
hurt or hinder you but aid you instead. Then there is the faceless that is where you do things with honor if honor needs to be as though done. This uses the bone system: based on the flow of energy or blood flow good bone thats good intention, bad bone that weak bones where weak actions are done. This is almost with no honour with luck so no bone or weakness of the heart with no luck by threat or no threat or feel is no honour. This is appropriate action where you do or don't when you say you do."
There may be face less but if you use face you get better results. It starts from what the idea that you present is where you are or aren't that a person uses will build upon by that person' actions. Good or bad doesn't matter, its the honor of the act that counts. When a totality of actions is accounted for, the good outweighs the bad. It is generally thought of as a good thing to aid the right people. First, act the good sumaritan but know that it will count when you do. Always be observant and acknowledge to yourself if you are truly needed. If not, do nothing. If so, do what is best for the entire situation. Learn to see both sides before you act. Remember, one must build through actions with actions that count with the people that you are trying to earn respect from.
example: Guiding with the unseen hand is an act of face. This is done
through what people call acts of wisdom. Knowing that the person will
get killed because of his actions. Bribe someone to act out a scene
with said person to guide them away from the action that would kill
them. Have them act out the scene by giving an end result example.
Thus, it would get said person will do things differently. Or, do the
acting yourself. Usually through stories that are directed at the
moment you want said person to think about. This can't be done
overnight and must be separated into several days of steps. Otherwise,
the end result is disaster.
If caught there could be a bad reprimand. Likely, said person will never trust you again. A teacher is a good example of this. If one of the techniques you taught to a student fails him, you will have to have several good examples of working techniques to back you up to keep him in a trusting mood. Never admit to the act of shame if you get caught unless it matters to do so. Say you were arrested, admit to the act they say unless it wasn't you that enacted it. Prove your innocence with three acts of proof. Or let them do the tests they require without hostility from you and that will suffice. Show no resistance unless it is an act they have no proof of. Violence is not resistance. If they are hostile when telling you of an act they say you did, show no hostility and try to somehow walk away from it with an act of resolving.
Sometimes it is only a matter of doing nothing else except accepting the circumstance and ignoring the threats they give while walking away. If they insist on what they think you did, tell them to prove it and accept the course of action they present to resolve the matter. Always seek the adverse course to the problem presented as a point of resolving the situation you are in. Consideration of the events that took place and the problem at hand will always help you in the end. Always point out the little things of another idea and people will forget the original point of the accusation.
When trying to improve family relations, do three things to be useful to said family. Always do good comments and compliments often. Then make the requests you want of them. This improves relations because following the wiccan law of three results for every bad event you do and three things for every action someone else does for you. When you consider the law of "do unto others as they would do to you thrice back", will considerately help you to not be stressed in the end. So when you consider face, three unseen acts will help you feel better.
Another law can be effective as well. It is: "Have at least
one effect enacted out to make ends meet." The actions are to resolve
the situation through the act of giving something away that will
neutralize the situation. Take away the threat that you represent to
them and they will not mind you walking away from the situation even if
there is anger. The idea in this is to be neutral and present a force
that will not be hostile in nature to netralize the event. Seeing the
viewpoint of the accuser is always good. Knowing the correct response
to the accusation by instinct and feeling is a good way of showing a
Disappear from site if you know it will resolve the issue. No answer is a good answer if you see no other solution. Learn to say no in a firm voice if you see the person is asking you for something. If they give an action, give the opposite response or adverse response back. They fire at you with a gun, duck and dodge. If not in the vicinity, Listen from whence the gunshot came from. Go the opposite direction of the gunshot. If a gun is held at your head and you are a hostage, force him to acknowledge by simple statements his faults. Then distract him and hit him with a backward kick in the knee while holding the gun away from yourself in some manner.
If you steal from somewhere don't go to the store, for at least 2 weeks to one month or they will nab you for something. If you walk into the store after the period of time stated, the store will have forgotten you. Always show the intention you would have them see and nothing else as in body language when you want a certain result. To make a fool of yourself is is not a bad thing if you want to survive events of badness. Always show good intent no matter what. An event unseen will not be a bad point for you. If seen, own up to it through the action of resolve or face the consequences. If you feel the need to boast, do it a month afterwards or face bad results. Like an arrest for a hack. Know when to not talk. Some events are only safe to talk about if there is no proof of evidence. Some events are safe to talk about a year later.
As in, an unknown writer said in a book "I would not own up to this fact only until now because it is a year or more later." Another rule to to remember: cocky, lazy, stupid, dead. You have so many successes. Cockiness becomes apparent and laziness occurs by missing a critical clue in some manner. Stupidity occurs because of the missed clue by a responsive action on your part. death happens by that stupidity. It is not bad if unseen. It is prestigious to be acknowleged of an event if you allow enough time to pass to safely talk about it. In face, any action is a good action if it builds upon your character in a positive way.
When you find you succeeded, in an action, play the events that follow, as if doing things normally, in the routine of your life. Thus people will not see it out of the ordinary. If this is true, people won't acknowledge it odd and no comment will ever be made of the act done. People will always be able to tell by the facial expression. The body language is also a giveaway. Playing things down is what this does. When you get acknowledged for the crimes you do, it is called infamy. For positive actions, it is called fame. Save someone's life and the the crimes you do will be ignored. Meaning, when you get caught, act as if you saved someone's life. Thus, you have no reason to be looked at funny. Walk away from it and don't look back. When all is said and done, there will be no remonstrations on you. In face, the more positive acts you're seen doing, the more people will will respect you. Respect people for the acts they do and they will respect you in return. When you appear to do right in the name of justice, things will always turn out the best for you.
If you want someone to do something for you. Do at least one
nice thing that the person considers nice for said person. This is the
brownie point system. Do something nice for said person using said
person's considerations and they will do something nice in return. When
a nice thing is done in return, give said person an appropriate term of
respect and a word of thanks. When that word of thanks is given, do
something else nice for said person and you can ask at a later date.
This avoids karmic debts really effectively. Karmic debt is toh.
Toh here, is when you do something because of the fact of personal feelings and at some point you must put yourself at their mercy to repay it after explaining it. It is the same for any other person to you. If you have someone owing toh to you then make it difficult on purpose for them to repay it. Give them infinite time to do the positive repayment that you ask. If you have toh, say to the person "I have a karmic debt to repay to you. Have pity on me." Then, explain the circumstances explicitly and coached in your best terms.It is important to omit nothing of the scene you remember.