The art of discussion is to use an integrity that
allows you to be kind, interesting and to the point. This is making a
point that can be talked about and worked with by the other person. Yet
seem to brook no arguement if you want none. Where, the art of
discussion takes place, this be when there's sometimes a switch-off to
commanding or arguing. To which is using a different set of idea or
where the other doesn't agree. The goal is to get an understanding
between the people discussing things. So remember this, when you want
to get along and get their agreement, you can make your idea seem like
theirs and then if possible make it seem to have come from the other
person. Sharing a viewpoint, if you can or asking a question for a
question.
However this is what I remember. When it goes to either of
the two, then its up to you. The discussion has to be ended sometime,
so be aware of that and try to either give an excuse to talk another
time or to state that you must do something else or let the
conversation end as you 'choose' to walk or go away from the discusser.
Sometimes not saying anything is to end the conversation early and you
have option to choose to go away from the other. So sometimes when
there is no way to continue a conversation, it is ended and somebody
walks away.
Where I am certain that it is somewhat more interesting.
This is when you are trying to bring up what they said and tell it in
your own words, as a restatement to make the other assured you heard
the thing said. The other thing is to restate what they did as a fact.
When you make them think, by doing so, then you can get them to be
swayed to your point. Sometimes to discuss something you gain a
possible friend and someone to work with. Sometimes they may be
abstinate or obsessive and go into arguing a point. The conversation
with discussion is to make a point, not to actually argue. So, make it
seem as though it were a good point as it can make a difference.
Otherwise if you feel good, you can state your problem
or situation and in the place of a response. This can be useful when
you don't have anything to say about what they say. It serves to point
out something of the moment that can be discussed or resolved. Try
combining those idea of conversation, if you want to try something
different. Try using the feelings you get through empathy, then you
will know what to say, thought as things feels right create better.
This is the point though, to seem to give in and yet make
a point to get you a winning point in the discussion. This is like a
debate, where the art of discussion is the idea of working with another
for a result. So, they can turn into associates, and it can lead to
pride and friendship. Which leads the future conversations you might
have. On the other thing that can happen, be that the meeting can turn
into nonchalance or dislike.
So watch what you say as tis can happen, as some things said could lead into
disaster. This be where the idea of holding back on saying the
irritating thing in discussion works better for you. In fact, I believe
its knowing when not to say something, also called saving face, where
you state what they want to hear and leave off the rest. What feels
right to say, should be a good approach than just bluntly saying
things. Always remember the final last words. Where the dismissal of a
discussion is the final last words.
How you argue is with a win win type situation. That is
to win and have the other win, in some manner. The arguement is key to
the conversation. So if your will is cool, to argue one work out their viewpoints and must
be aware that each side has views that must be expressed to get
understood. Thus stop the debate, to win or lose one must wait
out the anger. Thought or emotion and otherwise not is still
something so don't react, to it while thinking of what he or
she will say.
The emotional outburst can cause a reaction in
a heated moment. This reaction can lead to attacks, or nothing
by thought of many sorts. If the other person feels they are
ignored or useful in a worthwhile ending, then they will leave
off arguing or attack something else. The key to this is discussion.
Don't be afraid to express your thoughts and get things understood.
When an understanding is reached, then you are free to do as
you want.
Worthwhile ending is thus, thought if you know in death or life
as creating is creation by an aspect art. Use is with ability
that is energy, as if this with ebb and flow from energy or this
is with an act. If this is acceptable an act as nothing is energy
right off the bat. This changed as things progressed faster, as
things were the point or concept happened quickly we realized.
As that if we were to progress the things we do, were not always
what they seemed and things can change by what you feel realized
by tinglings in the energy.
This can change as the moment is kisses or love in the idea, or
so you see the time is cool to see as use is okay to the moment.
This is not as the night of freaking or freak night, where the
death scepter is with the idea as shape is what changes form
as thought is nothing that creates necessary or other idea.
Tis sped time timed things out not wanted, or not as necessary
and made use that ended our lives earlier than usual. Thus
as this is as thus is the life I live, we should have lived
beyond the point as life wasn't cheated so be it I will as I
need.
This idea you see isis protects, as to live beyond
the death is to work as you want. This is the effect as that is
with life is interesting information, as it really can't be used
except by the creator if the source is dead. Without the disruption
try to focus by feel with a sphere. This is to create creative
thoughts to feel by the use as use is usage in life.
This is to creative changeable approach, by idea
by imagined in use idea so feel the energy release as you foxus
or create life. This is in focus by summoning things to be as
you are in thought necessary as you create. Tis can be useable
by the thought to do things in life. Through the creator this
is useful in debate, think as to stop the debate you stop the
debate and create by feel. This is life and life is life with
intuition as you give if I am done with things.
This is with things 'no en an' or 'no in en', as tis energy woven
in the soul as thought as is at the end. As you know it or if
not as you gnow or see by thinking. If you aren't even thinking
as about things your with things, tis in the statement "in the end
if you are about to die or do a goddess trick to live." If you aren't
beaten, you were or make yourself worth the person's while or seem
useful.
This is done in many variety of ways, one of which is
presenting your arguement in a firm or focused manner that makes sense
to the other, as long as its practical they will agree and may end the
arguement. Unless the other is obstinate, they will agree. Another such
way is to present the idea an you want to discuss in a manner that
causes them to think they won the point, where you actually win by
sacrificing something you want for getting the agreement. Thus,
feigning or seeming to lose is sometimes winning. This may be seeming
to give in, and presenting a point thats similar to their point will
win them over. So, if done right you both win.
Be willing to say what is correct, 'Ok' every now an then or make it a
point to allow them no arguement. Be willing to be concillatory to the
point of effort, by any method you want to use. This means accepting
the point of view and working with it, adding your idea in with it, and
presenting it. The arguement is best ended quickly before it gets bad
or violent. Albeit, don't seem to be a pushover too many times, as they
might take advantage of you. In the arguement, be sure to state the
situation to get the other to understand where your coming from. If
necessary, make a stand-off moment where you may request time to think
it over or similar. Waiting 10 seconds by counting backwards from 10
can work wonders. Don't be afraid to to say 'no' and point your reason
out. This is being assertive.
Stress the point that is important to you and they will
get the point. Don't yell it though, just firmly state it as it can act
to get attention to you. Thats the reason you can't always tell what
the outcome is with concillatory moments. As the concillatory moment is
changing the outcome where you can tell what's going to happen with the
person who's dead-set and made to act with emotion. Its better to act
with concillatory moments. It makes an interesting point, either ignore
the points that don't fit with the object you have in mind.
Think or see it to be as this is to seem, this is a worthwhile
ending to take notice only when it deems important. Ie is thought or they
must make a point of it, with evidence that supports their idea. So the
only way to actually seem to win is sometimes not or accede the point,
accept the situation and work out an agreement. The one exception amongst
many is that sometimes people argue over the idea, they have to release
stress and they can make up after working things out.
So in the moment you see, be willing to laugh the problem off and let go of your
pride. Pride is ego and takes up a position in your mind that promotes
emotion. Emotion can make stress and a health problem may result. Thus,
to lose the stress requires meditation or a decisive mind to achieve
and not sweat the small stuff.